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Have you been trying to get some traction on your memoir—or simply find a way into your story? If so, these 10 memoir writing prompts might be just the ticket!

Because they are posed as questions, these 10 memoir writing prompts are designed to evoke a new memory, open a door that you may not even have known was there. Pick one that interests you and see where it takes you.

10 Memoir Writing Prompts: The Questions

Question 1) It seems (mostly) true that difficult passages end. What was the hardest period in your life? How did you make it through? What gave you hope to continue? Did you have help making it to the other side? And what did you find when you got there?

Question 2) We aren’t always in a position—emotionally or otherwise—to respond to even a wonderful opportunity. Have you ever been offered something you didn’t feel able to accept at the time? Has that haunted you? If so, how can you lay it to rest today?

Question 3) Are you a loner or are you a collaborator? Have you ever had to work against your preference? If you’re a loner, have you had to work in a team? If you’re a collaborator, have you had to complete something on your own? What did you learn about yourself from “working against your grain”?

Question 4) Have you ever successfully completed a phase of life or accomplished something hard won and noteworthy? How did you feel? Did you allow yourself to enjoy a sense of satisfaction? If not, why not? What door opened next?

Question 5) Can you recall a time when you were in a significant battle of the wills? Who won? Was it worth the fight?

Question 6) There are times when we need to persevere in the face of adversity or deep disappointment. Remember one of those. What did it take for you to keep going when the way forward seemed nearly impossible? Where did that strength come from?

Question 7) What has your relationship with authority been? Have authority figures helped or hindered you? Do you tend to trust authority? Challenge it? Avoid it? How has your relationship with authority affected the story of your memoir?

Question 8) When have you felt alone or abandoned? What helped you find your way when no one was coming to help? Who or what became your lantern?

Question 9) Do you remember a time when effort you put forth paid off beyond your expectations? When what you set out on the waves of fate returned to you like a ship full of silks and spices from a foreign land? Were you prepared for the abundance when it arrived? What surprised you most about receiving even more than you’d hoped for?

Question 10) What have you accomplished that took longer than felt reasonable? Was it worth it? How did the waiting change you?

And there they are: 10 memoir writing prompts, offered as questions in the spirit of Rainier Maria Rilke, who said, “Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves.”

Writing a memoir can be a deeply rewarding journey—but also a tricky one. This article offers guidance for shaping your story in a way that honors both your truth and your readers: “How to Write a Memoir.”   

If you’re interested in my approach to writing, you might also take a look at my books:
Plotting Your Novel with the Plot Clock and Jamie Helps Mel Write a Novel.

Would you like some support as you write your memoir? I work with memoir writers at all stages of the process. Whether you’re just finding your way into your story or you have a complete draft, I can help.
Visit my contact page, and let’s connect.

How Did Jane Austen Write a Novel from a Single Question?

It may not be immediately obvious, but Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice is predicated on a single question! This post will show you how to write a novel from a single question, too.

At the beginning of the book, the Bennet family faces a problem. Mr. and Mrs. Bennet have five unmarried daughters. Because the family estate is entailed away from the female line, the daughters won’t inherit it. That means that when Mr. Bennet dies, the women of the family will find themselves in a precarious financial position.

This creates an immediate question: How will the Bennet daughters secure their future? This is not a romance question (yet). It’s a practical question. A survival question.

Watch the Question Evolve

Almost immediately, Austen introduces a wealthy newcomer, Mr. Bingley, who might be the answer to the family’s problems—and who is promptly drawn to the beautiful oldest sister, Jane. With that, Austen shifts the question slightly: Will Jane and Bingley marry, relieving the uncertainty of the family’s financial future and securing a true love match for sweet Jane?

While the reader is freshly invested in Jane’s story, another marriageable man appears: Mr. Collins, the male heir to the Bennet estate, who could also rescue the family if he married one of the girls. He latches onto witty Elizabeth—but he’s a dullard, and Elizabeth refuses him.

From this, we learn that Elizabeth is not willing to sacrifice her happiness for security—and we invest in a new question: Will Elizabeth find someone worthy of her intelligence, humor, and independent nature?

As the story continues, Mr. Bingley’s sour-faced but wealthy friend, Mr. Darcy, believing the Bennets beneath Bingley’s rank, separates Bingley from Jane—even as Darcy himself begins to show interest in Elizabeth, who dismisses him for what he did to undermine Bingley and Jane.

Then the youngest, wildest Bennet girl, Lydia, elopes with bad boy Wickham, and Austen raises the stakes again: in the social world of the novel, Lydia’s scandal threatens to ruin her sisters’ prospects, too. The original question—can this family secure its future?—comes snapping back, now sharper than before.

Fortunately, Lydia does marry Wickham; Bingley finally returns and proposes to Jane; and the initial question is resolved: the family’s future is secured by Bingley’s fortune.

But the question that has emerged as the emotional heart of the novel still remains: Will Elizabeth and Darcy find their way to one another? That final question carries readers through the last chapters, until the story reaches its satisfying conclusion.

The Single Question Changes Shape

Notice how Austen writes a novel from a single question! Rather than abandoning her original question, with every twist of the plot, she allows that one foundational concern to generate new questions:

• The Bennet family’s uncertain future leads to questions about Jane and Bingley.
• Those questions lead to questions about Elizabeth and Darcy.
• Lydia’s elopement raises the stakes and creates still more uncertainty.

Each development feels surprising, yet each one grows organically from what came before. The story keeps moving in unexpected directions, but the reader never feels as though the writer has changed the subject. Everything remains connected to the original source of tension.

When you’re writing a novel, it can be useful to worry less about adding new complications and, instead, explore the implications of a question you’ve already posed. One good question can contain a whole web of interconnected plot threads.

How to Write a Novel from a Single Question 

1. Identify the Opening Question: Look at the first chapter of your novel. What uncertainty exists? What question do you want the reader asking by the end of that chapter?

2. Follow the Trail: Choose three major turning points in your story. For each one, consider: What question was the reader asking before this event? What question are they asking afterward? Does the question narrow? Deepen? Change direction?

3. The Reader Test: Complete this sentence: “If I were the reader, I’d have to keep reading because I need to know…” Your answer may reveal the question that’s truly driving the story.

Final Thoughts

One reason Pride and Prejudice is so engrossing is that Austen continually gives readers something important to wonder about. But she doesn’t do that by raising a dozen unrelated questions. Instead, she begins with one compelling question and allows it to grow, branch, deepen, and evolve until it carries readers all the way to the final page.

Your novel can do the same. You don’t need a dozen plot threads. You need one question, asked early, that you let twist all the way through your story. One question strong enough to make your reader wonder: What happens next?

Want to discover how you, too, can write a novel from a single question? I work with novelists at all stages of the process. Whether you’re just finding your way into your story or you have a complete draft, I can help. Visit my contact page, and let’s connect.

If you’re interested in my approach to writing, you might take a look at my books: Plotting Your Novel with the Plot Clock and Jamie Helps Mel Write a Novel.